Are you looking for solutions or just seeing problems?

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Gwen Pettit
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Do you see problems every day or solutions?

Optimists pay attention to the solution, while other people can get stuck on the problem.

I think that optimism comes from within. It reflects your belief system and attitude towards everything that occurs around you. I don’t ignore bad news and I am realistic about areas where I know that improvements would help me. Optimism, for me, is choosing how I "frame" events and where I focus my energy.

Here are some common threads that we optimists share:

  • Expect the best in everything – not the worst
  • Remain upbeat- even when things go wrong
  • See the solutions in the problems – instead of only seeing problems
  • Believe that you can achieve your goals-even when others say you have failed
  • When you hit a brick wall- look for a way to use the wall or go around it

The people who bounce back from adversity are resilient and optimism is one of their key tools. I believe that it makes good sense to spend your energy on possibilities instead of what did not happen for you.  I choose to focus my energy on looking for solutions and learning from my challenges rather than getting stopped by them. What is your best strategy for dealing with challenges?

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Gwen is a life transitions coach who looks forward to your email at gpspiral@gmail.com. You will gain balance in health, life and play from coaching with Gwen. She is a regular contributor to Lumigrate's forum on life and health coaching (www.lumigrate.com/forums/integrative-medicine-parts-make-whole/therapy-behavioralmental-health/life-and-health-coaches) and has her own website presence for more learning if you follow to www.gpspiralconsulting.com

 
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